Wonder Women Day

Today is not the only day we should thank them - it has to be everyday we should be thankful for having amazing girls in our lives like our moms, grandmas, aunties, professors, friends who treat us like their babies, their moms and even dads who are doing the two castings in the film of life. And yes, indeed, we all got our own Wonder Woman.

Mothers/Grandmas/Guardians are the ones who will remind us how gorgeous we are even all the people around us aren't clinging to idea that we are gorgeous. They always got our backs and make us feel that we are not alone even we feel like we are. They know everything even though we won't let them know - they feel it, they will understand, they will scold us for doing such stupid stuff but definitely kiss and hug us in the end and utter words like, "It's okay, Mom is here." No matter how old we are, we will always come running to them like kids and call out "Mama!" They're the ones who will tell us "Hay nako" shaking their heads, but still love and care for us, straighten us up and make fun of our stubbornness and stupidity from time to time. Oh you Wonder Woman you. 

I've lost my Tita last year. It was so painful. Well, it's still feel so heavy until now. How we wish she's still alive to celebrate special events with us, see us grow and reach our dreams. She was indeed a Wonder Woman for us and part of the coalition who were into raising us well. We want to spend more time with her, still.

So, let's appreciate what we have right now and thank our moms for the good life! If not for them, we wouldn't be here. If not for my grandma and mom, I wouldn't be here typing these words. I wouldn't be the person I am right now. They're part of the team who made me who I am today and now that I'm growing old and growing up (Oo nga, growing up. Yes, yes.) I'm part of the team who will take care of them and be with them til the sun won't shine and we all transfer to Mars.

So, here's for you my Mommas!

Happy Mother's day to you, Mom! I promise to do good and take MBA for you and for me and the entire human race! Though I don't usually say it but you know I love you no matter how stubborn you are. Haynako! Hahaha! I love you, mom! Happy mother's day! 

I know if I'm not going to say how much I love you now, time will fly away. Let's say how much we love and care for each other as early as now for life is too short and diamonds aren't really forever. It's your day mom! Thanks for the genes and have a great day ahead! :)

(also on: Instagram - @shainnelim)

And of course!! To my one and only Wonder Grandma!!

To my Mama! Thank you for always being by my side since the very beginning. You taught me how to write, read and you taught me how to be a good person (kung talagang good ako ha. Hehehe) Thanks to you and Papa for doing everything to educate me, love and care for me. Everything you've done was so priceless and no one could ever take it away from me. Thanks for being so patient, Ma! You never left especially those moments when I needed you the most. You and Papa Luis are one of those blessings I wouldn't trade for anything and I'm always be thankful for. No words can express how much I'm blessed for having you. I love you so much, Ma! Thanks for waking up every night just to cook dinner for me whenever I go home late. Thanks for reminding me that you're always there and I will never be alone. Thanks for everything. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, MA! HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY! :)

(also on: Instagram - @shainnelim)

Congratulations Batch 2013!

First of all, Congratulations Graduates!!

I know that you've worked hard for everything to reach this far and I know that it's an understatement to say that going through a lot of requirements was hard - because it was really more than that. It's a kind of ambivalence, the feeling of being happy and sad at the same time. Happy, because you've finally got your degree or finally taking the next level by choosing your own too. Sad, because you're going to miss everything about school, going to be apart with all your friends you used to be with every single day and every single fun you had way back then, so on and so forth.

There will be a lot of pressure coming in. For those who will be freshies in college this school year, welcome to the life of no sleep and time management but incredibly fun phase of life. It's time to decide whether you want to pursue the degree you were thinking since a kid - having a small blackboard, doctor's kit toys or a lot of paints and papers.
 Choosing a degree is not easy. I repeat.. NOT freakin' easy. It will lead you to all the things in the future - like what you really want to study for four years or even five, who and what you want to be, so on and so forth. I have been undecided on whatever course I should take way back then. First, I want to take Mass Communication or Communication Arts, then Nutrition and Dietetics, proceed to Business course, then wanted to shift to Architecture. I know you've been asking yourself the question, "What do I want to do with my life?" I felt the same thing.. and perhaps, from time to time, still feeling it, though I'm more matured (ehehe) now and I could say that somehow, I know what I want to do with my life already, and how to do it? I'm just going with the flow but, of course, being careful and wise about all the things I should do.

So yes, you have chosen what course you would take. The next thing is... the university or college where you want to spend four or five years of studying. A lot of things should be taken into consideration: Quality of education, tuition fee, transport, how hard the course will be..oh yeah... Everything. So if you passed a well-known university or our state university, big congratulations to you! But if you didn't make it to the university of your choice, it's okay. It's not about the university too, it's actually about you... studying hard, being active to everything, gaining a lot of experiences and whatnot. That's it! What you want to prove will take you to what you want to be. Just keep your vision clear and your goals high. Do the hard work and don't waste any opportunity to shine and create a mark.

For those who finished their studies and finally got the degree! Welcome to reality! I'm not saying that what you had way back then wasn't real but now, this is more of a serious stuff. A different level of real. I know that you know that it's finally the time to look for a job that will interest you, will help you to build your dreams and of course a job that you would love. A thing that you love doing wouldn't be feel work anymore because you know for a fact that you are enjoying and loving what you do. You will wake up each day inspired and motivated to accomplish everything that is needed to accomplish. But if it's the other way around, don't pressure yourself if you still don't have any appointments for job interviews and so. Looking for a work isn't easy but pressuring and stressing yourself won't do any better. Just enjoy first while you can, once you started working everything should be dealt and flexed on your work time. Also, don't be too picky or choosy, learn to evaluate yourself and what you can do but don't be over confident that you can do everything for it will ruin your expectations in the end.

What you want to do with your career is all up to you. Just be on the right path and do whatever you feel like doing, of course, it should be good for you. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, for that will be the way on how we can learn. Always remember: Sometimes you win, sometimes you... learn.

Congratulations Batch 2013! Cheers!

Indeed, a happy birthday 2013

According to all the documents I have, it's my birthday tomorrow! And yes, indeed, it's my birthday tomorrow. A year older, a year wiser and a year of new things. I'm so excited to indulge. I have given up every childish things in me especially those that don't help at all and tend to hurt my own self, people around me and of course, people/someone who are/is important to me and play a great role in my life.

I have come to the realize that I'm not getting younger and moving to the next chapter is a must and the best way to do. I'm so blessed that there are people who, through these years, keep it all up and remain my good friends and showed and still showing their love and concern for me, and by that, I'm really thankful. I'm so blessed to have a not so perfect but awesome family, that every time I need them, even if I don't say anything, they're just there and willing to give all of them just to make me happy, just to make me feel comfortable and make me feel that I'm great. I'm so happy to have my wonderful grannies with me, and even I get too stubborn, they're just there willing to support me all throughout. I'm so blessed to have someone in my life, like Vince, who is willing to keep up to every craziness I have and who is patient with everything I'm going through, even though I know he's going through a lot, too. And as me, growing older and most importantly, growing up, I have come to realize that I should take extra care of him, be with him, support him and be his comfort zone for he is my too.

As I take on another year in my life, there are a lot of things that will change, but of course, all of those changes will be for the best. As the Lord give me another year to live, I will make everything worthwhile and let go all the grudges and restart everything so that it would be a prosperous year for me and for the people around me. I know I have made a lot of mistakes and I'm thankful that a wonderful someone pointed it all out, and that's how I learned everything. That I needed that to improve and be better. I'm taking the added year in my life in great manner and with full of conviction, this is me going to be matured about stuff in my life - in all aspects of it. This is me, concentrating on the present and what I have right now, getting ready for the future and letting go of the past but surely learning from it.

A big thanks to everyone who has been a great part of my year and I will surely see you all around as I take on this life a year older. I'm so blessed to have you all in my life and as this new added year on me goes, I will assure all of you that this is going to be better. Same old funny Shainne but definitely letting go of those nega childish spree. We learn, we take on and move... Thank you for being one of those blessings. And yeah,this isn't just luck, this is God's will.

Indeed, a happy birthday 2013.

Cluttered

April! It's a busy busy month! My birthday is fast approaching and I'm kinda excited to celebrate it on a different note. We're part of the workforce now and we all can see how we've lost our humor. Hahaha! 'Cause of too much work involving. Anyway, still the same circle that allows you to think jokes deeply to overrule a joke from someone. It still the same and I must say, it's awesome.

A lot of things coming, a lot of things going and a lot of waiting involved. There are things you want to do, you need to do, you're wishing you can do, you're wishing could come after, blah blah blah, but one thing you will surely learn is the balance to keep everything in good faith. 

Hmmm. I'm thinking, maybe I should blog about my gelato experience and the best fries I've tasted for the past week! Nyehehe! 

Just whip yo' hair, March!

It's the last day of March and I finally got the chance to sit down, feel the breeze, and explore the beautiful world out there. Yes, it's summer time! I was speechless all the while, thought I won't be able to recuperate but I was wrong. It's a beautiful world and all we need is to be taken over by it, go with its flow and be thankful for the moments we feel so alive.

There are times in our lives we would feel like we're dying and we can't breathe but what's wonderful is that we can realize a lot of stuff along the way. The time wasted, how to keep going and how to find the true purpose and meaning of our stay. As per my alter ego, I don't have anything to worry about by cause of I didn't hurt anybody and truly, there's nothing I could be guilty for.
Holy week isn't just about vacations and having fun, we must reflect and thank the Lord above for giving us a savior who defend us throughout.

I couldn't explain how happy I am. I could finally say that dark days are over and I already have gone to the realization that the happiness I'm feeling right now is the kind of happiness you need not to worry a thing anymore at the end of the day; it's the kind of happiness you will surely have for tomorrow, the next day and the day after and so on. A kind of happiness you want to tell everyone about, that kind of thing you can be proud of and will boast to everybody you're happy and getting by with life.

I have a lot of downfalls brought to me by someone. It hurt for a while, I should say, and maybe when I try to look back it will hurt some more (or maybe I will just laugh about it because I got replaced by a... Hahaha! Okay. I'll be ssshhh.) Anyway, it's not important anymore. As a matter of fact, I'm on that phase of remembering everything and I was like... "hell yeah? I did that?! Fine." and "I'm really a fighter in a way, huh." Hahaha! It makes me laugh now rather than cry and I could say that there'll be no chance and I don't want to be on that wasted stage again. Before you know it, you've had enough. The thing that's important as of this moment... I'm freakin' happy! I couldn't get it, I feel really really happy and I want this feeling to take over. This is the happiness I've been craving for so long, the kind of happiness without worry, the kind of that sweeps you off of your feet.

I'm so thankful because I'm blessed. I have a supportive family, loving friends, officemates, random people out there who smile at me each and everyday.

Happy Easter Sunday, everyone! When you feel down and feel like giving up... Just whip yo' hair! Woohoo!

Weekender

Finally got the chance to sit down and write again. Weeks went well, though kinda busy but I think it's good. There are just so many blessings to be thankful about and I must say that I'm really blessed. New awesome work, new good people around me, new everything and I feel so happy about that.

*Insert astig song here* Yeaaah! Happy weekend, weekenderz! :)

The Now

Yesterday marked my last day in the Advertising company that embraced me for almost a year. Though I didn't get the chance to spend much time with everyone on my last day, I had a special moment to thank them for everything they've done. There will still be next time for all of us, guys! I can't wait to tell you new stories. 

New things ahead of me with a new company, and I'm excited to start walking to the new path of my career.  It could help me be successful and achieve all the things I want to accomplish.

I'm looking forward for the new things about work and life itself. I love how maturity clings to me right now. 

My plans about putting things in order, to enjoy my work/job, save money to put up a business and for my future husband, kids and all. I'm so excited to have those things in hand and I know that it could be achieved if I work hard for it. Others will think I'm too young for this kind of thinking, but for me, I think I'm not. Age is just a number we live by, it's just an information we fill up with every documents we have. 

Maybe the true story behind my thinking should not be revealed. I am happy about how things are going in my life now, though it's not always rainbows and butterflies... I still know that good stuff are coming my way, and I will concentrate on what I have right now and enjoy each moment. I'm very thankful that God gave me a new life to recover, to build things far behind from the previous, the present that is so wonderful and so as the future. 

I'm ready for the goodness and I hope God could grant my last wish in life. I'm willing to work hard for that thing and I know that He knows it would make me happy... and when that time comes, I could finally say that this life is awesome and everything's worth it. Thank you.

On Leadership

Here, I got the chance to talk about leadership. Being a student leader way back in college, I have given the opportunity to impart my experiences and opinions about leadership. I hope, in a way, I could inspire students/people to take on the lead, do good and motivate others.

So, here's to the awesomeness! (Naks!)

1. How do you define leadership?
A lot of people stereotyped leadership as something authoritative, something your subordinates must obey and be intimidated about. The real deal, it's not something you impose to anyone. It's something that comes out as it is and it's not something you boast about. Leadership is the process/way of influencing everyone - by giving them support and taking charge, by you, motivating people and freely encourage them. You inspire them as they inspire you, too.

2. You were a student leader way back in college, how did it start and what happened throughout of your term/s? 
Wow! It's a long story to tell. Ok, let me start. I was first a committee member. I was then lucky and blessed to be with an organization like FEU Junior Marketing Association (FEU-JMA); I was truly having a problem with my chosen program, I was planning to shift to Architecture from Marketing Management (just so I thought I have skills and I felt like I'm so creative! Hahaha!). Tapos na-discover ako, Hehe! Since I'm a committee member, I extend my enthusiasm (Hahaha!) to run for an org position. I went to series of interviews with the outgoing org officers, marketing professors and the program head... It was challenging, I tell you. The moment I passed, we started campaigning. I was running for the position of Assistant Corporate Secretary. Fortunately, I won, by the following semester I took charge of the Corporate Secretary position... The term ended eventually and another student election came. Same process. Just my luck, I got the Vice President for Projects position. I carry all the projects, approved all the given execution, processed everything for a symposium/seminar and all. It was so fun! My final year was about to enter, being a student leader has been my passion - seniors graduated already and you all know what's next.. I came out with a big decision to run for the Presidency. It was really crucial. A huge responsibility awaits, not to mention... my opponent for the position then is my very close friend, we actually planned to run for the same party. Kaloka noh? Well, I didn't get elected but I still served the organization - I still hosted events for them, attended/supported all the programs and interfere with every project they had. Hahaha!

3. Who are the people you think influenced you to become a good leader?
I could say that I got inspired by my professors. I really had good professors way back then. I can talk to them about leadership and stuff and they pushed me to do the best things. It enhanced me and I eventually had it passed on to almost everyone I know - my classmates, friends and other colleagues. I feel good about taking charge of stuff. I think, taking the lead and having huge responsibilities aren't something we should be afraid about.

4. As a leader you should always be motivated and be a good example to everyone, how do you motivate yourself?
By keeping a positive outlook. Well, there were times I felt so low that I wanted to shut myself down for awhile (you know, sleep muna)... but then thinking those students, friends and people who believe in me... It was enough to be motivated and rise again. Not everyone could give their trust to you so might as well prove to them that you are worthy of that trust. In a way, I know I could inspire them, even with just simple things.

I try to be a good example by not being the one who has the first say to cut classes. Hahaha! Kidding!

5. What are the things that you think made you a better leader and of course, a better person?
Trials and challenges, I guess. I got all the lessons with me. When you had the moment to live life on the edge you will be inspired to be stronger and you will truly appreciate and value every little thing about your every day.

6. With all the trials and challenges in your life, what are the lessons you have learned that made you effective?
I've learned that it's not always rainbows and butterflies, situations won't always be in favor of you... so you better work extra hard, have faith and keep track, 'cause if not, you'll lose it all.

7. What is your typical day as a student before?
I got a big shoulder bag, my cute university uniform, flat shoes and a half-asleep phase. I always try to squeeze ideas from my brain to perform well in school and to contribute jokes to my friends. It was essential. Hahaha! But seriously, if I don't have much to do with my day, I always hang out with my friends, go eat isaw, fishballs, siomai and other streetfoods along R.Papa near the FEU gym or go to the chapel, sit there, pray and contemplate and go on with my usual JMA day. You could often see me running around the campus holding project proposals, permits, letters, marketing plans and handouts.

8. Being a leader requires a great dedication and hardwork. People look up to you, how do you get by with all the expectations?
Aaaah! This one's flattering! Thanks!
I just keep it real. I keep it true to myself. If I could reach all my own expectations, chances are...I could also satisfy or even delight people who look up to me. I try to do great on each deal and try to maintain the enthusiasm... well, everything else follows.

9. What is the best way to motivate subordinates?
I motivate them by simply being with them. It's not about what title you have or whatever advantageous spree you presently can indulge into... It's about experiencing everything with your people and influencing or inspiring them to do good.

10. What are the words you live by to get on with your day that can also inspire people?
All the way!

Resta sempre con me

UP Fair 2013, Sunken Garden, sitting on the grass with the one you call your life, eating street foods and having a good moment with the songs that the bands were playing.... You kept on staring at him, wishing that if you have the power to stop the time for the both of you, you definitely would.

Then you said, "Masaya ako kapag kasama kita, kahit noon pa," while feeling the cool breeze of the university. He answered, he told you the words you'd love to hear, he said the words that knocked you down with happiness and you thought about it again... that if you have the power to stop the time for the both of you, you definitely would. 

"I wish I could step into his dreams, into his world.. like he steps into mine." 

I want you to know that...

Days are so wonderful whenever I'm with you. I feel like I could be free from all the problems and things aren't heavy. 

I love when we goof around and be just us like nobody is watching. I so love the moments when we could just sit on a certain place and I get the chance to sniff and give you soft kisses and you will kiss me and whisper words that could mean so much and bring me to my knees. 

I love how we can curl up and tangled with each other after a long day, share our stories and just hug each other. 

There are so many things I love about you, about us, and about me when I'm with you. I feel that I could float anytime soon because things are just awesome. I want to tell you everyday how much I'm thankful that I have you in my life, that when I count my blessings... I count you twice or even thrice. 

You are my sanctuary. You are the safest place I know I could stay. You are my comfort zone. 

Thanks for making me happy and for being the reason why I really am. I love you so much. 

Maturity 2013

2013 is the year of (extra) maturity for me, which means, I'm not the same kid anymore who sits on the school bench and wonder about life, because right now: 1) I'm not a kid anymore, 2) I'm living the life already and 3) every breath I take, I take it as a mature one (Thank you for the applause!) After days of contemplation, it finally came to me what my grandparents and parents were actually saying.. that... "You go ahead, do your own thing, get married, make a family and have a wonderful life blah blah blah blah." And to tell you honestly, it never did sink in to me before because for some reason the universe won't let me take it... but now it feels okay, it feels GREAT already. I'm not that old, though; quite young for others, very young for a few, too old for toddlers' stuff toys but just enough to *mature stuff*, but hey, I'm an adult and matured. My way of thinking is kind of cool (Sige na please, I'm claiming, others said I'm free spirited.. so kind of cool na? Hehe) I'm making plans and I want to make it happen. I'm making it happen.

Well, before, financially wise, I'm saving (more) money because I want to buy things I want - new gadgets, dresses and some small stuff, right now it's not the thing anymore. I'm saving (more) money because I want to buy a house that I can call home (hahaha! That's wit, people), a car to drive, a TV and those adult stuff that an adult should have plus I want to put up a business (I got a business plan, marketing plan, business research etc., if you want to be partners with me, please contact me hihihi). I'm happy about my way of thinking. Hahaha! My grandparents are happy too, because they can see and they can feel that I really have plans for my life... (heehee) and as they always say.. "You know, our stay here on earth wouldn't be that long anymore because we're old blah blah.." and I always wanted to cry because I can't stand the thought that I'm going to lose them, then they go for more... "We're happy about what you're doing right with your life now, with your plans and all. We still want to see you get married, have kids, ride with you in your new car, help you to build your house blah blah blah.." Let's stop on that because those words are really tearjerker. Yes, they're happy for me but I wish I have a new work first. Hahaha! But seriously, yeah, I'm looking forward to everything - work/career, love, friendship, family, and many other stuff to call my own . Money isn't about everything but it is essential and I'd like to believe the phrase/the fact that "Money can't really change people, it just help them become who they really are." So we must keep our feet on the ground whenever good opportunities for success are knocking on our doors.

At my age, you can tell me to go to the bar, party hard, be drunk and stuff. I actually did. I've tried almost everything of that and I eventually laid it all off, that was a phase in my life and it was over. I did enjoy.
I know what you're thinking... that I'm too young to call all of those stuff off (?) I tell you, nope. Now, I can still enjoy moments without me going to the bar and firing my energy out, I don't drink anymore because my system can't take it, hehe! But I get to drink/sip alcohol from time to time. Again, that phase in my life is finally over. I'm embracing the extra maturity, hug hug! Haha! I'm still in for some craziness, trippings and adventure. I think these are the things we should not lay off, for us to learn and get to tell stories to our future kids. We should have fun while learning about life, that's the greatest thing we can experience and share.

The first Friday of the year

This is the first Friday of the year 2013 and it's raining... You know what everyone feels when it comes to waking up early while it's raining... to go back to bed at the very least and screw all workload or activities for the whole day. Anyway, while I'm sipping a hot coffee while typing these words, I already got a text from my boss. Nothing much, not very alarming, it's just a response on my message... nothing negative just yet.

Thanks, 2012. Happy New Year!

After tonight, we're on a new year. Fast-paced, right? 2012 has been kinda uncool for me yet I'm very thankful for everything that it taught me. I just couldn't believe that in a few hours a new year will be on, and right now I'm wishing that 2013 could be a great year for all of us since that we survived the hardest stuff of 2012.

My life is just starting on the new phase. After studying, I started working right away and everything else followed until such time that it tested me to be stronger. 2012 had this unique way of showing challenges and solutions, you just needed to find out how it could suffice the required system for each. I was able to endure majority of those stuff, conquered it and apparently survived. I'm proud.
My aunt passed away this year. It was one of those downfalls that my family had this 2012. Holidays aren't the same anymore because we aren't complete, but life still goes on and we try to grasp everything as we try to be present for one another especially in times of trouble.

I really want to say goodbye to 2012, not that I hate it though, but for the fact that I'm excited for the new year. I want something better, something normal and something different from 2012. I'm sure you all want the same. With all my hardwork, I'm now ready to face the new year ahead. I have nothing to lose now and I'm not scared of whatever challenges that would come my way.

I'm letting go of the past. I know I wouldn't forget it no matter how hard I try but I'm letting it go... because I want to be constantly happy and I don't want to worry anymore. I've gone through a lot this year, and I think it's going to be unfair to myself if I will hold on to all negatives. I'm not erasing any part of the past nor forgetting it but right now, it's time to let go of the resentment and pain. I have chosen to learn from it and move on with my life with the help of the new year.

I'm thankful for those people who stayed with me all throughout. Now, I'm looking forward for a brand new journey with them; I couldn't express how grateful I am to have them - in this way I know... I'm still blessed, that 2012 was still a good year. Remember, we're still alive, working, laughing, and all; we better smile at 2012 and thank it for everything - the fun, love, friends, family etc.. We are totally blessed.

My faith in God led me to wonderful things. I could say that I have a stronger faith now. No matter what life would bring, I'm ready.. even if I'm not.. I should be, hahaha! Life didn't come out with instructions so it's okay if we make mistakes, but it's required that we should learn from them. Let's value each situation and what it can teach us. Let's not forget that this life should be lived well.

I'm wishing everyone a happy 2013!
Happy New Year, folks!

Just One Last Time | David Guetta feat. Taped Rai

Just One Last Time by David Guetta feat. Taped Rai

video from YouTube

Happy last day of 2012 people! Let's listen to some David Guetta and Taped Rai for today. This is indeed an impressive one, the song got some wonderful lyrics with a great rhythm. I've been listening to this song for more than ten times already. Haha!

Enjoy!

Even though it hurts I can't slow down

Walls are closing in and I hit the ground

Whispers of tomorrow echo in my mind

Just one last time

It's a Merry Christmas 2012!

It's a Merry Christmas!

Hello ya'll! I just want to extend my gratitude to everyone who greeted me and my family this Christmas! Your greetings are very heart warming and awesome, it makes me want to jump up and down. Thank you so much, friends. Thank you people for all the twitter mentions, favorites and retweets, including also your Facebook messages! You don't have any idea how happy I am to receive all of those.

I really hope that you guys are spending the Christmas eve fruitfully. Let's thank the Lord above for giving us a wonderful and peaceful Christmas. We are all fortunate to have food to eat, shelter, family, friends and special someone to share all the blessings with. Let's give thanks and allow ourselves feel the whole spirit of the holidays. Let us show our love to those people around us and give a hand to those who are in need.

Merry Christmas, folks!! Have a wonderful day ahead. Hugs and kisses.